“play date” Bundibugyo style
You have seen the pictures of our house. We live inside a fence, with a gate that we close at night or when we are out of the district. (”the district” refers to Bundibugyo District which would be similar to any state in America.) In through this gate come our next door neighbor children to visit, play or just watch us whenever possible. To them, our lives are fascinating. There are about 25 kids in the family group next door, so it can get to be quite a crowd. Right now there are about six outside playing with the kids which seems like a nice, manageable number. They, of course, speak no English. The play is quite entertaining to watch. They will hover around Naomi and Quinn as soon as we walk in through our gate or out of our front door. Today they are repeating over and over “Magezi” which is their word for “wise one” (Quinn is an unknown name in their language, but means wise so they call him Magezi instead.)
Naomi and Quinn enjoy the chance to spend time with these kids. They ask to stay out and play with them. Since I have time to sit and supervise, I say yes. Naomi gestures widely to them as she suggests a game. All the kids imitate her perfectly waving their arms around and giggling as she grows even more animated in her explanations. They are not mocking her, merely doing their best to join in when they know nothing of what she explains. Soon, she starts running and they all chase after her shouting with laughter. This seems to be their only real game together I discover, after much watching. Naomi and Quinn run, the Ankolimpe children chase. At the end of the afternoon they turned it around and Naomi and Quinn were finally chasing some of them which was fun for all. They will copy anything N and Q do, such as falling down and rolling up into a ball - soon there are seven children rolling with their feet in the air! Or hopping like a frog . . . .
We ended our afternoon by offering them to come sit up on our porch. They were so honored to sit in chairs. The families here usually have one or two “chairs” or stools or something resembling that are saved for honored visitors. Today the Ankolimpe children were our honored visitors and I enjoyed sitting on the floor while they took the chairs to their great surprise! We passed each one a piece of small origami paper and I showed them how to make an origami cup and how to pretend to drink from it. There was much slurping. I pretended to pour them all tea and they slurped it up. They are all dirty and many have horribly runny noses. None have complete clothing and one small sweet little girl wore just a towel tied up around her neck - pray for her, her name is Jabelle. We brought out our pitcher of fresh, cold clean water - such a treat for them - and poured them some in their origami cups and sat and drank together in silence for a long time (this is cultural). Then I used my one new Lubwisi phrase “Li na wi nigai noui” (not the right spelling, I am spelling phonetically!) to as what their names were and we went around saying our names until I had learned some of theirs. It is surprisingly difficult to remember their names and keep them with the right faces. They enjoyed this game quite a bit. After a long time we said “webolai” (thank you) and weisaloe (see you later) and calle calle (bye bye) and they all silently left the porch and walked out of the gate with their small origami cups tightly in their hands.
And this is my question for the day . . . . What is it to show love, and how can I be Jesus love poured our for the lives I touch in passing this day?? Here I am at the edge of the world, here for them, because He asked me to walk beside them. Now how do I show His love, be His face in the midst . .
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so it’s 3:20am here, and I was up, but trying to go back to bed, thought i’d check you’re blog, since you might be awake. I can’t tell–are the times posted there your time or ours? I’m thinking yours… anyway, just wanted to say that it was exactly what I was praying for you when I was falling asleep the first time, which, if the time is our time, is right about when you were posting. I was praying you would be a light to your neighbor children–not just your family but you specifically. that you would show them love, and Jesus’ light, and thanking God that from the beginning of time He knew you would live beside those children and love them, that He made you with interests and talents and passsions that would serve them and thanking Him that you moved there to live beside them. Just wanted you to know. I don’t know the answer to your question, but I have the feeling you’re doing it just by being you.
love,
~b
Annelise,
You DID show his love by what you did with them …… remember, Jesus taught in many ways, and some of the most profound ways were not with miraculous healings, but with tender love and kindness. Don’t change a thing ….. your actions answers your own question!
I may not have gotten to know you well before you moved to Uganda, but I think with your writings, everyone that wasn’t fortunate to have had that chance now will be able to. Your writings will be an important part of the journey that Christ has put you on. Not only are you showing these children who Christ is, but you are also showing and teaching each person that reads your blog. Your journey has more than one aspect to it and anyone who has the chance to get to know you through your writings will see Christ at work through you.
Much love and prayers for you all,
Jeanne W.